The search for the illusion of love

Its existence has been questioned no less than that of God, truth, and the limit to our universe. It has no textbook definition, because, like cold temperature, nobody has yet been able to agree on a concrete meaning of it. It is the key topic of countless songs, poems, books, works of art, plays, movies, and quarrels; and yet, we don’t even know if it exists. Nevertheless, when asked, most people will say that …

…therefore not the equivalent of approval. What the person finds is a comfort zone, which is in some way familiar to his childhood. The next generation will be taught the same way. Unfortunately this is something which can not be taught, or stopped unless we open our eyes to what Alice Miller is saying, and make ourselves aware of what we do to our children. Bibliography The Drama of a Gifted Child by Alice Miller