First Date

Surfing the singles scene can be an extremely time consuming and often frustrating pursuit of love, especially if you are unsure about how to make the first step. While I can't give you a "magic formula" that guarantees success every single time, I can give you some basic guidelines on how to proceed, and hopefully succeed! When you see someone you would like to ask out, the first barrier you'll need to overcome is actually …

…interest and comment about it. What did you do this weekend (week)? Ask if they saw a favorite TV show or sporting event. Ask about a local current event. (Did you see 'item in question.') What sports do you play or like? Have you been to (a local restaurant). Where are you from? Where did you go to school/college? Have you read any good books lately? What do you normally do for fun?