contrast of mod and trad.marriag

Modern romantic love marriage could never have worked in a traditional society. This is because today's modern love marriages consist of two people who fall in love over a period of time, they get to know each other very well and know all about each other. They have little ways of communicating that only they understand. They share their likes and dislikes with each other and have equal roles in family life. Women now are …

…seems ok and they might be able to love and get along with. But they later find out that this person is controlling and does not care about them but still depends on them to take care of things at home. If the wife or husband decides that they do not like or get along with their spouse, what are they to do? They can't divorce because the permanence of family is too highly valued.